Boundaried & Unbothered
A Wild Wisdom 2 month plant spirit devotional with Rose for women ready to create healthy boundaries and feel good doing it.
October 7th - December 2nd
It’s time to take your power back. Release yourself from people pleasing, feeling guilty when saying no, explaining yourself, being “always available” and feeling responsible for other peoples feelings. Reclaim your time, energy and space by getting clear on your needs and desires, developing clear communication skills and knowing where other people end and you begin.
Rose:
The Goddess of Sensuality & Scared Boundaries
Disappear for a moment into your desire. Allow a craving of sensuality to overcome your being. Close your eyes and feel the warm breeze bless your skin, the soft sun kiss your eye lids, melt chocolate on your tongue, tilt your head back in blissful ecstasy and let your heart weep for all that was and will no longer be. Let the walls come down that inhibit you from accessing this pleasure. Let yourself unfurl in silky radiance like the blossoming of the ripe, red, rose.
You are deserving of your desires, of knowing and having your wants and needs met. Rose wants nothing more than to carry you down the erotic rivers of your longing protected by her wild thorns. As a woman, your sensitivity and sensuality are your super powers and it time to reclaim this sacred right. Rose helps you awaken and interpret your inner sensations allowing you to access desire and make decisions based on what feels good for you.
Women are not rewarded for having needs, for having limits or for saying no. Women are not rewarded for choosing themselves over others and not appeasing the public. This societal programming and repression has cut you off from your needs and desires. Rose supports you in bringing them back online. She teaches you how to own your no, take your power back and become boundaried in the name of your own health while reclaiming your own needs and right to feel good.
For over a decade I studied boundaries through a multitude of lenses. From the confusing beginnings of forming walls then windows to getting comfortable with the word “no”, diving into deeper knowing of who I am and practicing clear communication. Throughout my journey I have experienced the harshness of the walls, the empowerment of “no”, the joy of embodiment and the liberation in simple communication. I have witnessed my energy return to me as I have clarified my limits and taken ownership of the space/time dimension of my life. It has been challenging, uncomfortable and destabilizing as well as surprising, empowering and freeing. It has not been free from pushback or violation but it has been rich with universal teachings and vast blessings.
Six years ago I became a student of Rose and she taught me to view boundaries through the lens of pleasure. This is when everything truly changed for me. Boundaries became easeful and I became resourced. Filling my cup became non negotiable and saying yes to myself became natural. From this place I have truly become boundaried unbothered because my boundaries are fully based on self love.
Imagine feeling safe in your body when you disappoint someone, instead of bracing for the worst.
YOU WILL LEARN TO:
+Work in ritual with plant consciousness.
+Create a sacred allyship with Rose.
+Reclaim pleasure as your birthright.
+Feel confident about owning you needs and desires while expressing them with ease.
+Saying “no” and setting boundaries without guilt.
Are you ready to break free from the cycle of people pleasing so you can finally feel energetically fulfilled by your relationships instead of drained?
On plant teachers and Rose:
Plants are the most powerful masters I have yet to sit at the feet of. They are remarkable allies to which I am infinitely grateful for and deeply devoted.
By turning to plants as direct teachers you bypass the potential corruption and limitations of the human experience. The more you listen to other people the more you are removed from your own direct insight. Listening to and learning from plants awakens your own deep intuitive knowing. Plants are intelligent living beings that communicate and offer wisdom. They serve as a direct line to the divine and deeper layers of your own consciousness.
You will listen to Rose through your body while reclaiming the sacred wisdom of your feminine form and deep connection to nature. This path of slow plant medicine gently opens the realms of your subconscious and your inner world from the comfort of you own home in a gentle, integrative way.
Rose is truly the queen of boundaries and is a well known representation of gentleness, beauty, love and sensuality. Rose opens the heart, awakens the womb, promotes love and invites in deep feeling. Rose is also high in vitamin C, contains iron, calms the nervous system and is anti-inflammatory. Rose provides a gentle space for being and sensing.
Of course we all know that Rose also has thorns. This aspect provides profound protection and effortlessly embodies clear boundaries around her sensual nature. The strength and softness resides hand in hand and offers you a pathway to hold yourself in the likeness of her mirror.
Throughout this container you will work intimately with Rose, drinking tea, anointing oil and creating sacred rituals that will connect you more deeply to your sensual nature, inviting a fresh perspective of boundaries to be born from this space. Through your connection with Rose you will receive the support in uncovering and embodying of your sensual boundaries, choosing yourself and serving in a way that feels good.
THIS IS FOR WOMEN WHO:
+Want relationships where people respect your no because you respect yourself.
+Have read the boundaries books, made the scripts, and still feel guilty when using them.
+Want to trust that your wants and needs are allowed to take up space, not just tolerated.
+Want boundaries to come from self-respect, not from resentment finally boiling over.
+Know exactly what everyone else needs from you and have no idea what you need from yourself.
+Want to stop over-explaining yourself every time you say no to something.
WHO ARE READY TO:
+Prioritize your own needs and create a life around what feels good to you, not what looks good to everyone else.
+Feel confident and safe setting boundaries free from guilt.
+Reclaim your power and pleasure to nourish your life in the ways that you want.
+Quit confusing self-sacrifice with love.
+Make choices from self-respect instead of obligation.
+Understand deeply what you want and need and prioritize getting it.
+Serve people from a space of being totally resourced yourself. Pouring only from a full cup.
THIS IS NOT FOR WOMEN WHO:
+Want a quick fix and are not ready to devote themselves to daily practice.
+Are unwilling to look at the shadowy belief systems behind their inability to set healthy boundaries.
+Hoping to skip the body and go straight to "just think differently about it".
+Want boundaries without touching the guilt, fear, or conditioning that's been overriding them.
Imagine fully experiencing your own power and pleasure, instead of just desiring it.
THE WILD RITUAL WAY
YOU WILL RECEIVE:
RITUAL WORKSHOPS
SOMATIC BOUNDARY PRACTICES
PRACTICAL COMMUNICATION TOOLS
RECORDED PRACTICES
JOURNAL PROMPTS
COMMUNITY CALLS
RITUAL SUPPLIES
PLANT MEDITATION PLAYLIST
HOW WE MEET:
Group opening and closing Rose connection ceremonies via Zoom. [Attendance is required for opening and closing - if this is not possible for you we will work out another method just please let me know upon registration.]
Weekly calls via Zoom & Guest Workshops [Attendance not required. All calls are recorded]
Community platform via Circle with anytime access to Jessica for questions, inquiries and shares.
RITUAL EDUCATION & PRACTICE:
Daily morning energy clearing and tea meditation ritual.
Sensual somatic education reclamation
Deprogramming of social appeasing pressure
Practical, feeling based boundary techniques.
Meditation Playlists
Energetic cleansing flower baths.
*All ritual supplies (Teas, flower baths, oils & cleansing smokes) are provided.
*Please note: Ritual supplies are only provided for women in the US. If you are outside of the states I'll will provide you a list of items to purchase for yourself. There is no discount given for supplies.
How often are your decisions around your boundaries born based on pleasure?
How in touch are you with your limits based on your feeling good?
Are your boundaries being expressed from your sensual knowing?
Do they hold you in a space that allows your body feel safe and healthy?
How comfortable are you with exploring these dimensions within yourself and getting super honest about if you’re actually being an advocate for your own pleasure?
For many women, sensuality and pleasure is shamed and therefore limited in access. Therefore, decision making and boundaries are not fully inclusive of these principals. I invite you now to reflect on this very thing and welcome you lovingly into a soft container for exploring the realm of boundaries through embracing a life of pleasure.
Your time and energy are sacred. Protect it like it is.
LIVE CALL TIMES:
Wednesdays:
October 7th, 14st, 21th & 28th
November 4th, 11th, 18th & 25th
December 2nd
All calls 12PM EST
REGISTRATION ENDS SEPT 25TH
Please email Jessica at jessica@thewayofwildwisdom.com with any questions or inquiries.
What people are saying…
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“When I first joined The Way of Wild Wisdom, I felt nervous and overwhelmed, unsure of what to expect. But over the three months, I found myself softening into the experience, learning to pause and really listen to myself. There wasn’t just one moment that changed me but the month with Rose had the most significance for me overall. She met me at my resistance and pushed me deeper than I thought I could handle. But it was so worth it! By the end, I felt a confident, new connection to plant spirits. It feels like I have opened the door into something so deep, rich, and expansive. To anyone thinking about joining, just do it.”
-Beth H.
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“One of the biggest things I was searching for was a sense of ritual that felt true for me. Everywhere I looked, it seemed like someone had something to sell or a system to follow but this program felt different. Jessica told me it offered tools and guidance, but encouraged me to make it my own. That really resonated with me, because I like to do things in a way that feels true to my heart. This program gave me the freedom to follow my own path."
Janelle D.
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“This isn’t just a course, it’s a recalibration. Each month of The Way of Wild Wisdom felt like its own pilgrimage, unique and deeply layered. Working with Blue Lotus especially challenged and transformed me, showing me parts of myself I had really pushed away. Through this journey, I’ve learned to stay present with the unknown, the uncomfortable and find deep trust in the process of being alive. This program meets you where you are. For those who are ready to devote time and space to learning and listening, they will be met with real life altering wisdom from within.”
-Madeline V.
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“At the beginning of this program, I was both excited and scared. I have been drawn to plant medicine for the last several years and was nervous about what would surface. Throughout the journey, I was repeatedly moved by moments that brought me to tears and reconnected me with my body and spirit. Closing with Blue Lotus was turning point for me; the plant now walks with me in everyday life. This program helped me remember that I can show up for myself, even in grief or transition. It is truly a sacred and powerful experience. The depth and safety of this container allowed for real healing, not just inspiration. If you feel even a small call to this program, listen to it. This program is medicine.”
- Maria L
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"The real transformation came through Jes’s ability to guide both the emotional and energetic layers of the journey. She holds space with such wisdom. She guides in a way that feels both sacred and accessible. I integrated plant rituals into my own healing work in ways I never imagined. If you’re craving a grounded, transformative experience that stays with you long after it ends, this is it. "
-Danielle P.
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“I had never heard about plant ritual before but I was excited about trying something new. Learning how to work with plants in ritual completely shifted how I live much to my surprise. It started as a curious exploration and quickly became incredibly powerful. The rituals in the morning helped me soften anxiety and cultivate a deep sense of clarity. I was quietly but profoundly changed by this experience. If you’re craving real nervous system healing and deep inner trust, I haven't found a more effective place to begin.”
-Catherine T.
